I ask my wife if she has had any replays from her sharing the link for the donation page I have on gofundme.com with friends and acquaintances, she said to me that one of them has said something like. Oh well if he have better job he could afford to see a dentist or if he have better hygiene he will not lose his teeth. And I am not quoting anyone in particular. She does not recall the exact comment, because she deletes the actual comment, which I do not understand why, she deleted or maybe if she did it because she found it as judgmental as I did.
I find quite offensive, disturbing and disappointing that a friend or acquaintance think that low of me. When they do not even know me well, or what we being going thought the past years, or how much of a struggle is to be in one income as we been, especially when is not lack of hygiene.
I was brushing my teeth look at my wedding photo I have teeth there. Now when the first one fell off while I was brushing no pain or nothing it just fell off. And in regard of a job well is not like I am not doing everything in my power to support my wife and I, evermore, so, I keep food in our table and a roof over our head.
Last but not least I would love to hear what all you think of this. And if you think judging a person is something that should not upset someone deep inside. I personally do not like to do it myself, to judge someone or anyone's circumstances but to try to put myself in their shoes for one moment, before I even think on judging but that is me. But if I am on the wrong please tell me. at the very end of the gofundme page is an option to contact me or leave a comment so please do so I will appreciated that thank you again.
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